Why is it that some guys seem to meet women so effortlessly while others
seem to say and do all the wrong things? When it comes to adult
dating, there are a few timeless secrets that every man needs to know in
order to be a successful chick magnet.
1. Believe in yourself
Learning to feel confident and self assured will serve you in every area of
your life, especially in the online
dating world. At a subconscious level, most women are looking for men who
are strong and assertive. If you’re not able to give off this vibe, you’ll end
up someone’s best friend rather than their lover.
2. Read the paper
Flipping through the headlines will keep you informed about the world and make
you more interesting to talk to. When you meet someone, you’ll most likely end
up in a conversation with them at some point. Being able to carry an
interesting and engaging dialogue will win you big points.
3. Dress for Success
Guys that take care of their looks without getting too high on themselves are
very attractive. Engage all her senses… smell great, be clean and tidy, wear touchable
fabrics, and have nice breath. The only thing left to her imagination will be
how you’ll taste.
4. Go out with a Mixed Group
Although you may go out with the intention of meeting someone, you don’t have
to make it so obvious. Go out with a group of friends and enjoy yourself while
on your pursuit. Being casual and relaxed about meeting someone will make you
seem less like a predator.
5. Choose your Buddies Wisely
Going out with a group of rowdy guys might not be the best way to meet someone.
If you’re with a loud and boisterous group, you might be making yourself
unapproachable and giving off the wrong impression.
6. Have Female Friends
I’m not recommending you recruit women to be your friend purely for the purpose
of meeting other women. However, if you already have female friends, use them
to your advantage. Men who are seen with groups of women seem more trustworthy.
Plus, there’s something intriguing about a guy surrounded by women. Don’t
forget to have one of your female friends discretely let the woman you are
interested in know that you are available.
7. Be Discrete and Humble
If you’re rich and successful, be discrete about it. There’s no need to tell
every women you meet on adult
personals or at bars how much money you make and how fabulous you are. It’s
such a turn off.
8. Listen… for Real
Active listening is one of the best ways to impress a woman. Making eye
contact, nodding, asking questions and demonstrating that you are actually
hearing her will win you more points than you’ll ever know.
9. Avoid Dangerous Topics
I’m sure you’ve been told never to talk about politics and religion in polite
company. There’s no place that this advice is more true than in the dating
world. When you first meet someone, the last thing you want to do is get
involved in a fiery debate or say something to offend someone. Keep the topics
light and fun.
10. Watch the Movie “Hitch” to Learn the Art of Pick-Up Lines
One of the best scenes in the movie “Hitch,” starring Will Smith, is when he
first picked up Sara, played by Eva Mendes. With confidence and creativity, he
managed to spark the interest of a very jaded woman. And he didn’t use one
single pick-up line. What’s the message? Pick-up lines don’t work but being
genuine and authentic does.
About the Author: Aelicia Anderson is publicist and content
writer for the online
dating site FlingFinder.
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