Patience is the key to her heart
How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With
You
Author: Vlad
Karl
Let's get started. Getting a girl of your dreams is
much like getting the car of your dream. But unlike a car which you can always
bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 percent discount in courting the girl
of your dreams, she's so sweet a thing to be discounted, you dearly are in love
with her and your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of
the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl actually depends on
how big your heart is - faint heart, never won fair lady.
The first dating idea for any man is to make a
good impression. In your doing so, you don't have to talk, dress or do the
common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl's attention. Be unique,
that's all you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently - indecency can
make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language - obscene language
gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of
good habits - don't drink or smoke like any other loser.
How to make her fall in love with you? Take your
time. Add some romance to your dating style. When in College I had a crush on
the most beautiful lady in our first year lot. Though all senior guys were out
to get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from the other guys. I
wrote her three letters without disclosing my identity and slid into her room
secretly; all I said was 'Yours Secret Admirer.' The first letter contained the
meaning of her name, this I got by playing around with the initials of her name
to make meaning. The second was a funny message that could only be read
backwards and it was all about her physique and her smartness. In the third
letter I told the girl to be ready to receive a rose flower from her admirer,
but only if she could be kind enough to phone him using a number that I had
included in the letter. The girl did phone me that very night, and her first
words to me were, "Hallo Secret Admirer." So, the story of our love
affair came to be. Later she told me that was so creative of me, no one had
approached her in that manner. I made her fall in love with me and made a date
in the romantic manner.
Befriending and understanding the girl you are
out to get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. You have to
understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to be adored and needs
to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you'll get to know what
she's into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is. Love is built
upon friendship and it always leaves individuals better off having known each
other should they break up. I and my College steady were to break some time
later but to date, we are the best of buddies. Be sure that bringing out the
selflessness friend in you will make her create room for you in her heart.
A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that
she can always turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don't hesitate to be
helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking
and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope. This above all
other things will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the
best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she'll have found
that friend whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the
rights and wrongs, the dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget to always be there
to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to
listen as a friend.
Make the girl feel special; because she's
someone's friend - your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your
life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company and
for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show
appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.
In your day to day talks, share your dreams,
your world, and every aspect of your life with your girl. Always dream with
her, build with her, and always cheer her on and encourage her. Tell your girl
how you always think about her even when you try not to think about her. Let
the girl know that she's your first thing in the morning and the last thing
when you go to bed at night.
Her knowing that you were thinking of her when
you slipped beneath the softness of your blanket and gave in to the bliss of
sweet dreams, will make her go 'my my' and her heart will sing your name all
the year round.
You have to be creative and constructive to keep
girl's interest in you so full of life. I remember one time I told my
girlfriend to be to imagine we are both deaf and dump. We then sat opposite
each other on the table and started sharing our feelings for each other using
eyes and hand signs. It turned out to be some fun. There was also this time
that we were in the library and we decided we are not going to speak to each
other verbal, so I wrote a love note on a paper and passed it across the table
to her, she replied and on and on we carried on our love on paper conversation
till we almost exhausted a whole rim of paper. At sometime, I noticed that some
guys sited with us on the table were enjoying our ordeal than their studies.
Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I remember her
suggesting that we play deaf and dump two years after we broke up, can you
imagine that?
Never fail to phone her, even when she least
expects it. I once called some girl that I was interested in at four o'clock in
the morning. When inquiring of what I was doing up so early, I told her I was
in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when they can't
sleep. Wow! First thing early the next morning, she was at my door with a
king-sized hug for me. No matter how many dates you take her, don't make any
elbow - exceeding moves after any date, just drop her home and with a friendly
handshake, wish her good night. Don't kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect
as a gentleman will be earned on how patient you are with her when it comes to
such matters as kissing her and accessing her inner graces.
The writing is on the wall that you want her,
but you can't have her just yet. Increase your demand. Try to show her that men
are also hard to get at times. Make her realize that when she feels a little
dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very much
cold, she's actually missing vitamin you. By this time, she'll be so much into
you and since love is truthful and is characterized by open and honest
communication, honestly promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty,
respect, and your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you'll
always be there for her, to listen and to hold her hand, and that you'll always
do your best to make her happy, and feel loved.
Remember, patience is the key to her heart; be
like that gardener watching a fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after day
admiring it, but, exercising tremendous self-discipline, neither feeling the
fruit, nor pinching it, nor testing it to see if it is ready. And then, one day
he holds out his hand and the fruit simply drops into it, ripe, warm and eager
to be eaten.
The patience and self-control which you practice
will make you more attractive and charming. This will qualify you as her daily
vitamin and win you that heart hers.
I wish you to meet the girl of your dreams ASAP,
make her fall in love with you, and make her feel the happiest girl in the
world!
Article Source: http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/how-to-make-a-girl-fall-in-love-with-you-16617.html
About the Author:
A writer Vlad Karl maintains a dating, friendship
and love relationship columns on http://www.meetingland.com
30.10.2008. 17:50
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